Converting Friends Into Fans

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Social media encompasses both business and personal relationships and interactions. There is a lot of crossover at times between the two that happens naturally. However, what if you want to turn some of your friends into customers?

An important thing to remember, always, when it comes to online connections, is that it is all about relationships. It is often said that mixing business with pleasure is not a smart thing to do in life. However, when it comes to relationships that we have either established through social media or that we established through face-to-face environments and then continued online, it isn’t always a bad thing to allow your friends to become your clients (or vice versa). An important thing to remember, in either case, is never to give anyone the hard sell.

There is a certain order to the progression from friend to client. The middle step, which must happen, is the “Fan” step. To go from friend to client without any sensitive transition may be problematic. Once you have gotten your friend to become your fan, you will see that he or she will opt in to support what you and your business are offering. Opting in may be literal or figurative. Your fans may opt in by agreeing to be a part of your mailing list. Of course, there are several other ways in which your fans  may opt in.

  • Joining your blog community: If your friends join your blog community by leaving comments on your blogs, forums, etc, they are opting in to become fans.
     
  • Referrals: If your friends refer you and your business to other people, they are opting in to become fans.
     
  • Promoting your offerings: Friends who push your offerings through social media, without your asking them, are opting in to become fans.

However, you can’t assume from the fact that your friends have opted in to become fans that they will necessarily end up buying what you are selling. On the other hand, you can feel more comfortable about discussing your business with them once they have become fans without a fear of offending them. If they are already fans, you won’t stand the risk of losing them as friends. It is well known that people who own a business don’t usually have a great deal of success when they try to sell something to one of their friends. It becomes extremely uncomfortable if there is money that is owed that is not paid in a timely manner.

Friends may not necessarily have the ultimate goal of seeing your business succeed. Fans, on the other hand, do have the goal of seeing your business succeed. They want to to enjoy interesting and mutually beneficial online interaction with you. Because of your fans’ desire to see you succeed in business, your relationship will mature and you shouldn’t be surprised if those fans eventually end up buying what you are selling. The more you build the relationship, the better your chances of turning those people into clients eventually.

Conclusion

Before you try to convert any of your friends into fans, it is important to understand which friends you should be converting and which you should not. If you try to sell your products and/or services to your friends, you will end up working very hard and may very possibly not reap a great deal of benefits. You also could be risking the friendship. You need to proceed slowly at first when it comes to cultivating new relationships or new versions of the same relationship.  As always, the relationship is key. If you don’t build strong connections with other people, your business will not succeed the way that you want it to. It is always about the people. If, on the other hand, you turn your selling efforts to your fans, most likely, you will have greater success and your relationships with your fans will continue to flourish.

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Author

  • Michael Cohn

    Michael Cohn is the founder and Chief Technology Officer (CTO) of CompuKol Communications. He has decades of experience in IT and web technologies. Michael founded CompuKol Communications to help small businesses and entrepreneurs increase their visibility and reputation. CompuKol consults, creates, and implements communication strategies for small businesses to monopolize their markets with a unique business voice, vision, and visibility. Mr. Cohn earned a Master’s degree in project management from George Washington University in Washington, DC; and a Master’s degree in computer science and a Bachelor of Science degree in electrical engineering from Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, NJ.

5 Responses

  1. NITESH BANSAL says:

     

    Via LinkedIn Groups

    Group: eMarketing Association Network
    Discussion: Converting Friends Into Fans

    It always Happens this way…. as the friends are most prospective customers ……
    Posted by NITESH BANSAL

  2. Genie Z. Laborde says:

     

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    Group: CXO Community (Exclusively for CEO, COO, CFO, CIO, CTO, CKO, CMO, CAO, CVO, CRO, CLO, CSO, and CDO)
    Discussion: Converting Friends Into Fans

    Hello Michael,

    Unless they bring up the subject of your product, service, or endeavor, do not try to sell friends. BIG MISTAKE. I gave a dinner party once for 12 good friends and one of them brought his brochures and spread them out on my coffee table. I took him off my list of dinner guests, in spite of the fact that his wife was one of my closest friends. It is gross to pitch your friends. Unless, they ask for your pitch.

    If they are truly your friends they are already fans. Leave it at that. Genie Laborde, Ph. D.
    Posted by Genie Z. Laborde PhD

    • Michael Cohn says:

      Genie,

      I guess your friend used a bad tactic in trying to convert you and your guest to fans.
      I agreed that he should have ask your permission before showing his brochures to your guests.

  3. Genie Z. Laborde says:

     

    Via LinkedIn Groups

    Group: CXO Community (Exclusively for CEO, COO, CFO, CIO, CTO, CKO, CMO, CAO, CVO, CRO, CLO, CSO, and CDO)
    Discussion: Converting Friends Into Fans

    That is simply one example of bad judgement. Let me repeat my opinion. If your friends ask you qestions about your product or service you certainly should answer them honestly. However, capitalizing on your friendship for a sale is uncouth. This is one of the reasons sales people have a bad rep. So not add more sparks to that fire, please. However, if your customers turn out to be friends, that is great. Not Facebook friends, but real friends. I have a lot of those. I treasure them greatly.
    Posted by Genie Z. Laborde PhD

  4. John Calia says:

     

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    Group: CXO Community (Exclusively for CEO, COO, CFO, CIO, CTO, CKO, CMO, CAO, CVO, CRO, CLO, CSO, and CDO)
    Discussion: Converting Friends Into Fans

    I must agree with the good Dr. Laborde. I have friends who, I am sure, could be customers but I never pitch them. They know what I do and often come to me for advice. However, I leave it up to them to make the first move. So far, none have. I can always get more customers. Friends are harder to come by.
    Posted by John Calia